In 2004 (long long time ago...)...
...I studied at the University of South Florida, Tampa Bay, as an Exchange student.
It was pretty different to studying in Sydney, Australia...
...and I tried to assimilate into campus life by joining about 50,000,000 on-campus clubs...
... such as the Pre-Law Society, a sorority for black students (I swear I was invited...), and the Jewish Women's Society...
One particular event that was very memorable for me was when the Jewish Women's Society hosted a famous female Jewish writer...
... for a guest lecture...
... for a guest lecture...
This writer was Cindy Chupack... one of the chief script writers and Executive Producer of Sex and the City ...
Although Cindy was 39 and unmarried at the time...
...I felt that the series was not directly written from Cindy's personal perspective (of course, it is loosely based on the newspaper columns written by Candice Bushnell)...
...but regardless of this, she mentioned that a number of scenarios were written about her own personal experiences...
I have always felt excluded by the dialogue of Sex and the City...
Somehow, personally, I have more difficulty relating to this series than other women...
...I have been to New York City (also in 2004...) but I don't feel that the lifestyle of the Samantha, Carrie, Charlotte, and Miranda truly reflects New York...
When I visited New York City...
... I stayed with a Philippino family... and my filipina friend's boyfriend (now husband) was African American...
...I met their friends... all of whom were Asian-American, Latino, or African-American...
Walking around the streets of New York...
...I felt that there were so many kinds of people, from so many places...
...there was definitely a huge variety of people... (even compared with Florida... which is also very mixed...)
So with that in mind... during Cindy Chupack's lecture...
... I had a burning question that I desperately needed to ask...
So during the question time...
...I put up my hand... and bravely stated;
"Why are 99% of the men in Sex and the City WHITE?"
Cindy Chupack smirked and looked suitably pissed off...
Then she paused.
Then she started to get uber-defensive and stated bluntly;
"Our writers received a DIVERSITY AWARD for introducing the inter-racial romance between Miranda and the black doctor Robert in Season 6..."
..and then she turned her head and said; "Next question!"
I am turning 28 soon... (korean age; 29)
...and during my 13 years of dating (since age 15)...
...I think that 87% of the guys I have dated have been Asian (or of Asian descent)...
(a small percentage have also been Arab...or Latino...)
That might be because I live in Asia... or because my university in Sydney was made up of roughly 50% asian students...
...But I honestly cannot understand the homogenization of Sex and the City...
...the main characters are WHITE WOMEN dating predominantly WHITE MEN...
Does that represent New York City? ... am I being too idealistic...?
Sex and the City has always failed on the racial front...
...even though it is perceived as being progressive for women...












